I'm having actual physical issues typing this blog today. My hands are shaking - you'd think I was standing outside in subzero temperatures right now. I feel like I'm about to vomit. That is not an exaggeration either. If you're wondering why I feel this way, let me give you a taste...
My partner has a 13-year-old daughter. While she is extremely bright and beautiful, she has had to deal with a lot of turmoil in her young life. Sadly, her mother is a huge culprit to said turmoil. Most of you reading this know me quite well. You know that I try to see the good in all things and in all people. With this woman, however, I simply just cannot. In fact, I truly believe that her name should appear beside the Merriam-Webster definitions of evil, psychotic and sociopath. This woman, or lack thereof, has a public blog. On this blog, she has managed to create erroneous accusations against my partner, his family and myself - accusations that destroy character and destroy lives. She has even gone so far as to describe, in detail, how she has fantasized murdering both my partner and his mother and how she'd dispose of my partner's remains. Today, she managed to sink herself even further by saying that she prays (yes, PRAYS) for me to get sexually violated and taken advantage of by my partner and get pregnant with a daughter, only to have that child raped in the future.
I'm sorry and forgive me if I'm wrong here, but does this sound like a sane person to ANY of you? How a court could grant sole custody and control of any child's well being to a person like this is beyond me. Not only do I fear for my own sanity, the sanity of my partner and his family and their personal safety, I fear the most for my partner's daughter. The brainwashing and emotional and physical pain that little girl has endured and must endure from her own mother is sickening.
Yes, while my partner may have made some mistakes in his past, I stand behind him 100%. He is a GOOD, LOVING, LOYAL & DEVOTED father. It shows in how much his children adore him. He gushes about them every chance he gets and misses them dearly. I would do ANYTHING to change the circumstances right now. But sadly, certain people are simply disgusting, vindictive and all-around liars.
I guess I'm just at a loss of words now. I am completely numb. Where do I go from here?
I have MANY friends who are single parents. Sometimes, relationships and marriages just don't work out. But, at the end of the day, it's about your children! It's NOT about past petty bullshit and issues you personally have with that other person. It's about co-parenting the best way you know how for the good of the child/children. It's about giving them the best life possible and the best definition of family. Evidently, some people just don't get that and would rather take on the notion of being selfish instead. While you are stuck trying to hurt the other parent in spite and it's working, you are hurting your child more. You are also insulting your child! Are you kidding me!?!
I really have nothing more to say right now. To go into the entire story behind this subject would be out of line and inappropriate, so I refuse to. I will not exploit my partner or his daughter any more than her mother already has.
Feel free to share your thoughts. I just wanted to share with you a day in my life. Cute, right?
And to the abundant words of advice and support I've already gotten on this subject via my Facebook homies...THANK YOU. I hope none of you ever have to deal with anyone or anything remotely like this. I wish this upon no one. She has managed to make our lives a living hell.
God bless all ya'll.
Until next time, kittens....
#stayclassy
#filthyneversleeps
#meow
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